yeah, i think this is a good topic. but i don't get what you mean " parking spots" . i don't know true or false. but i have seen girls from internet, mostly are ugly. and i have seen many girls are taken from laos are not good. i don't know why , maybe they were good when they were in laos.
Maybe he want to say lao women who marry a man from another country, or western countries....I had bad experiences, my wife left me for another western man or farlang if you like. So make sure you choose the right girl or you face the problem like me. When I met my ex wife in Vientiane, we did not love each other, just want to have a family....so our relationship always has many problems and ended up, separated, she went off with another man.....just for money, bad luck. I did not feel sad or bad, about our break up, because I am too tired with problems....she left me and slept with another man....for me I think that's because our marriage did not base on love....that's why we had so many issues and problems...people think my ex wife is a bitch, cheat and lies about many things, but that's life.
Maybe he want to say lao women who marry a man from another country, or western countries....I had bad experiences, my wife left me for another western man or farlang if you like. So make sure you choose the right girl or you face the problem like me. When I met my ex wife in Vientiane, we did not love each other, just want to have a family....so our relationship always has many problems and ended up, separated, she went off with another man.....just for money, bad luck. I did not feel sad or bad, about our break up, because I am too tired with problems....she left me and slept with another man....for me I think that's because our marriage did not base on love....that's why we had so many issues and problems...people think my ex wife is a bitch, cheat and lies about many things, but that's life.
Yes marriage must base on love in order to last.
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I would like to continue sharing my bad experiences with everybody here so we can learn something about it. My ex wife left for a farlang man, which she met in the Club...Let look at CHEATING, why Cheating? My ex wife likes POKER MACHINES, Gambling, I do not like gambling, that does not mean I did not take her out to restaurants with friends or Poker machines CLUBS, I did, but still she lied and told me she wanted to go out with some older lao women, regarded as this AUNTY that AUNTY....I thought it's fine and good thing because my ex wife could communicate in lao with lao women....in fact she went with western men....many of my friends saw her in those clubs with farlang but they did not tell me first, they said they were afraid that if I knew about the AFFAIR or NORK JAI , then our family will have big fight. But when my ex wife left me for the western man, many friends came and told me they already saw her with those men in the clubs long ago.
When my ex wife was still with me, I was not neglected her....I took her to holidays hired 4 to 5 STARS Hotel for her....took her out to restaurants with friends... to CLUBS for entertainment....That are evidences which shows that I take care and look after the family well....but because she has no love for me that's why she could easily lie and cheat me.
Because of those things those prooves which I have done ( take her to holiday, eating out in restaurants, go to clubs from time to time)...my friends thinks my ex wife is a BITCH.
Let it go Sad Story. As we say “more fish in the sea“. It’s probably for the best anyway.
My advice? If you are looking for the good one to last a long time be good yourself. No clubs no 4star hotel, no restaurant, no gambling, no drinking, no drugs. Running around spending money is for when you are young and single, getting married is responsibility and being sober.
When my daughter is looking for a boyfriend I don’t care kohn Lao or falang. I just look for no drinking, no mia noi, no beat the wife.
Go find a nice girl, there’s one looking for you.
-- Edited by askafalang at 02:49, 2007-10-23
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I like to share more about my bad experiences with you. You see when my ex wife left, some of my friends came to see me, the very first questions they asked was did you take out, did you take to holiday? Some said don't you ever take her out, go to holidays....etc It's like I am the sort person which does not care about, look after his own family something like that. Lucky that each time I took her to holiday I recorded in Video, so when friends told me that they thought I did not take her to holidays, always staying at home, I put the video in and showed them all ( holidays, going places ) only after they saw the video, then they knew what they thought about me, was not correct.
That the down side of things. Of course I am never be ashamed of whatever happened just sometime things went wrong for you in life that's all. At the end we still have to go on with our life.
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