I've lived in the United State for a very long time. I did enjoy the life that the United State of America has given me, ever since my parents brought me here when i was three years old. America has offer great oppitunity for me and my family. New houses, new cars, and the freedom. But now i'm tired of the bills, taxes, and getting up at 6 am to go to work, because of the traffic are so bad.
When i went to Laos last year,i saw the people in laos are poor, they have simple lives, and endure the everyday struggle like we do. But whenever the family get together, its like a big party. They eat, sing, and dance together. I dont know maybe just to forget another day or maybe its the way of life. In Laos, its seems like every month has some kind of festival, and people dress up in the traditional clothes to give alm to Bhuda. Its so wonderful to see the colorful clothes and the Monks on the street. Its sureal.
As i observed, I realised They are living life day by day. They have a culture and a country to call their own. I thought to myself how wonderful it is to live here. And just slow down and enjoy or rather obsord my culture that i have been missing in my life for so long. Maybe the grass is greener on the side. Which side i wonder?.
I've lived in the United State for a very long time. I did enjoy the life that the United State of America has given me, ever since my parents brought me here when i was three years old. America has offer great oppitunity for me and my family. New houses, new cars, and the freedom. But now i'm tired of the bills, taxes, and getting up at 6 am to go to work, because of the traffic are so bad.
When i went to Laos last year,i saw the people in laos are poor, they have simple lives, and endure the everyday struggle like we do. But whenever the family get together, its like a big party. They eat, sing, and dance together. I dont know maybe just to forget another day or maybe its the way of life. In Laos, its seems like every month has some kind of festival, and people dress up in the traditional clothes to give alm to Bhuda. Its so wonderful to see the colorful clothes and the Monks on the street. Its sureal.
As i observed, I realised They are living life day by day. They have a culture and a country to call their own. I thought to myself how wonderful it is to live here. And just slow down and enjoy or rather obsord my culture that i have been missing in my life for so long. Maybe the grass is greener on the side. Which side i wonder?.
Yea, I totally understanding where you're coming from. I've been back to visit Laos 5 times already and the 6th coming up soon. I can't never get enough of Laos. Everytime I came back from the trip, I miss Laos more and more. There are plus and minus for both countries, but I tend to favor more toward Laos.
10 or 15 years from now, I can see myself living a little house in Luangprabang with a view of MeKong River. 6 months in Laos and 6 months in the U.S.
10 or 15 years from now, I can see myself living a little house in Luangprabang with a view of MeKong River. 6 months in Laos and 6 months in the U.S. -------------------------------------
Yeah, i'll be back to Laos in 2 months. I'm so exited to go. Every year i save up some money to go back, for at least 1 month. But i think this year will different from the other year.
I think love is in the air this time. My Aunt has set me up with her friend daughter. I had talked to her last year, but was not sure what to do with it. I'm the type of person that always think before i act. But this time, i know where my heart is. I could not look at any other girl, when i came back to the United State. Here we go. Love between two continent. How exiting!
I'm gonna fall inlove with my Laos girl. I'm gonna fall inlove love her long black hair, with her body, and with her beautiful culture. She will teach me about my lost culture and heritage. Thinking back, i wish i could touch her hair or hands while i was there. Soon!. Her skin was pearl white, slender body, and beautiful sincere smile. I remembered when i stared at her for a very long time, i loved it when she turn so ever slightly to me with a smile, the two hearts colides. I think this is a new chapter in my life, ill take a chance and see what happen. Love, is such a wonder thing.
Yeah, i'll be back to Laos in 2 months. I'm so exited to go. Every year i save up some money to go back, for at least 1 month. But i think this year will different from the other year.
I think love is in the air this time. My Aunt has set me up with her friend daughter. I had talked to her last year, but was not sure what to do with it. I'm the type of person that always think before i act. But this time, i know where my heart is. I could not look at any other girl, when i came back to the United State. Here we go. Love between two continent. How exiting!
I'm gonna fall inlove with my Laos girl. I'm gonna fall inlove love her long black hair, with her body, and with her beautiful culture. She will teach me about my lost culture and heritage. Thinking back, i wish i could touch her hair or hands while i was there. Soon!. Her skin was pearl white, slender body, and beautiful sincere smile. I remembered when i stared at her for a very long time, i loved it when she turn so ever slightly to me with a smile, the two hearts colides. I think this is a new chapter in my life, ill take a chance and see what happen. Love, is such a wonder thing -------------------
It sad, but exiting at the same time. Me, Bao Lao American can not speak Lao, except for the simple words. We tried to communicated with each other, some word she could not understand, and some i could not understand. So we just smile and laught about it. I thought to myself, How romantic is this.
We sat at the Japanese bridge that night, the lights on the bridge was amazing, just pretty enought without being superficial and moon lights. Wow!. The misty mountian in the background. No honking horn, or buzzling of the city life. Bao Lao and Sao Lao, try to talk to each other. Our heart are so close, but yet world apart.
oh you guy talk ing about me? i have talking to bao lao us for a year on the phone. first he can speak lao so lillte. so i told him if you want to talk to me you need to learn to speak lao . my english not good to communicat with you . so we talk to each other every day 2-3 times aday . and finaly he speaklao very well, n i he understand every thing i say . later he promise my he will come to see me. but the day comming he call me he can not come . that make me very mad . and since from then he not call me any more. even email. but i am ok life is go on . sia jai tea bor sia to. sia jai tea my life still on. and now i nothear from him any more.
Yeah, i'll be back to Laos in 2 months. I'm so exited to go. Every year i save up some money to go back, for at least 1 month. But i think this year will different from the other year.
I think love is in the air this time. My Aunt has set me up with her friend daughter. I had talked to her last year, but was not sure what to do with it. I'm the type of person that always think before i act. But this time, i know where my heart is. I could not look at any other girl, when i came back to the United State. Here we go. Love between two continent. How exiting!
I'm gonna fall inlove with my Laos girl. I'm gonna fall inlove love her long black hair, with her body, and with her beautiful culture. She will teach me about my lost culture and heritage. Thinking back, i wish i could touch her hair or hands while i was there. Soon!. Her skin was pearl white, slender body, and beautiful sincere smile. I remembered when i stared at her for a very long time, i loved it when she turn so ever slightly to me with a smile, the two hearts colides. I think this is a new chapter in my life, ill take a chance and see what happen. Love, is such a wonder thing -------------------
It sad, but exiting at the same time. Me, Bao Lao American can not speak Lao, except for the simple words. We tried to communicated with each other, some word she could not understand, and some i could not understand. So we just smile and laught about it. I thought to myself, How romantic is this.
We sat at the Japanese bridge that night, the lights on the bridge was amazing, just pretty enought without being superficial and moon lights. Wow!. The misty mountian in the background. No honking horn, or buzzling of the city life. Bao Lao and Sao Lao, try to talk to each other. Our heart are so close, but yet world apart.
Well, Good luck der Bro!! Love doesn't know distance and I think you start running the paper works. It is always nice to see someone goes back to the motherland and fall in love.
Well, Good luck der Bro!! Love doesn't know distance and I think you start running the paper works. It is always nice to see someone goes back to the motherland and fall in love.
It is natural for all of us to yearn for something simpler and to go back to basic when we are not happy with our current situation or living in a stressful lifestyle. Having all the materials things does not mean we are satisfy with life. You dream of a simple life while your counter part in Lao also dreaming to have what you have. Having nothing also does not mean we are happy.
I still go to temple 1-2 times a month for special occasion or and festivals. I learn to read and write in Lao from my parents. You can still do the same.
I have vague memories of Laos. USA is my home and my country. When I think of simple life I think of when I was little living out in the small community out in the Midwest. Laos is another world away. I only know from reading and seeing image of it.
I work as a dishwasher during college year and dreaming of having my own office in some company. Many years of due date, deadline, office politic, and stressful environment I dream of getting a simpler job like those Mexican landscapers I see outside of the company everyday. I thought how stress free would that be.
We come from outside of Laos. We accustom to this western life style so we notice these things. People in Laos may not feel the same way because that is how they live everyday.
Human desire. We always want something. Why don't we just accept what we have and live by it.
oh you guy talk ing about me? i have talking to bao lao us for a year on the phone. first he can speak lao so lillte. so i told him if you want to talk to me you need to learn to speak lao . my english not good to communicat with you . so we talk to each other every day 2-3 times aday . and finaly he speaklao very well, n i he understand every thing i say . later he promise my he will come to see me. but the day comming he call me he can not come . that make me very mad . and since from then he not call me any more. even email. but i am ok life is go on . sia jai tea bor sia to. sia jai tea my life still on. and now i nothear from him any more. ----------------------------------
Some love are not meant to be. Some where in the world, hearts are broken. At the same time somewhere in the world, new love blooms. Like the seasons, in the fall many trees and plants dies and asleep. But when spring comes, it will show it true and magical colours. Just like love, its needs sun shine and alot of attention.
Dont give up on love. Love that are meant to be will find you and never let you go. Love that is not true, it will never find you. Even if its right in front of you.
I've been to Laos many times now. I got to know Lao people, they are truely happy in Laos. They do want to earn more money and America are the promise land. But in their hearts, they only wish for extra money to put in their pockets.
Many Laotian are scatter through out the world. Sometime in isolated locations. They have no association with other Lao people, they are lonely. so they insimulate in the western society, even married outside their race. There is nothing wrong with that, if they are happy.
This person that start this page are happy and inlove. Let all of us be so lucky. He chose to discovered the country of his birth, and fall inlove with Sao Lao. We are all yearning to know who we are. Where we came from, and what type of people we are. Its a yearning to belong.
Good luck Bao Lao and Sao Lao, on you quest and your journey in life.
Human desire. We always want something. Why don't we just accept what we have and live by it. -------------------------
Accepting is giving up on your dreams. Never settle for a Fat wife, because she can cook for you. Never accept the warehouse job, because you are set for life. Never accept broken hearts.
If your dream is to have an office job, with your own cubical, and marry a woman in your office, have a family and live in Idaho. Good luck with your dream.
Human we are made to dream. Marting luther king have a dream, to see the first black president of the United State of America. Some Africian American hold on to that dream, some gave up on the dream.
oh you guy talk ing about me? i have talking to bao lao us for a year on the phone. first he can speak lao so lillte. so i told him if you want to talk to me you need to learn to speak lao . my english not good to communicat with you . so we talk to each other every day 2-3 times aday . and finaly he speaklao very well, n i he understand every thing i say . later he promise my he will come to see me. but the day comming he call me he can not come . that make me very mad . and since from then he not call me any more. even email. but i am ok life is go on . sia jai tea bor sia to. sia jai tea my life still on. and now i nothear from him any more. --------------------------
It seems like your love has never got started. Why would you cry over him. True and longing love must be real. Look each other in the eyes. The eyes can never lies unless you want it too.
Are you sure you love him. Or you just think your inlove, because he live in the United State.
the question not is ilove him. is notme start to call him . and not me start the conversation. the question is did i love him? i did not cry over him. alot of man line up. but he the ome that i talk to more than other. he propose to come to live inlaos .
By now, I'm sure most of you guys had saw that movie "Sabaidee Luangprabang" already. I want it to be like that guy in the movie. Traveling back to Laos, meet a pretty lao girl and fall in love with her. Happy ending!!!
By now, I'm sure most of you guys had saw that movie "Sabaidee Luangprabang" already. I want it to be like that guy in the movie. Traveling back to Laos, meet a pretty lao girl and fall in love with her. Happy ending!!! ----------------------
Everyone should fall inlove once in their life time. Good luck to you. If you see the girl of your dream, you will know. Treat her right. And she will love you forever.
the question not is ilove him. is notme start to call him . and not me start the conversation. the question is did i love him? i did not cry over him. alot of man line up. but he the ome that i talk to more than other. he propose to come to live inlaos -----------------------------------------
People often blame love for their misfortune. As for you. How can you fall inlove with someone without seeing him. I think you want to fall inlove. I think you are confused, as to the true meaning of love.
The true love comes from the heart and not from your head. If you love someone because of Looks, financial, status, and what they can do for you, than its not love. The reason many romances failed, is because people mistake emotion lust with love. And financial gain with love.
When you love someone, the two of you becomes one. That is true love.
People often blame love for their misfortune. As for you. How can you fall inlove with someone without seeing him. I think you want to fall inlove. I think you are confused, as to the true meaning of love.
The true love comes from the heart and not from your head. If you love someone because of Looks, financial, status, and what they can do for you, than its not love. The reason many romances failed, is because people mistake emotion lust with love. And financial gain with love.
When you love someone, the two of you becomes one. That is true love.
did i say i fall inlove with him? u should ask me did he love me? for me no i did not fall inlove with him i just feel comfortable when he call. just enjoy talking . i am different from other. he did told me he love me. but i told him if youlove me can u come live with me here in laos. if talking abut about finalcial yes he did propose to me . but i r refuse to accept it . even the gilf i not accepted. he saw my pic i saw his pic. we exchange the pic. the true love no exist, and the love online is fake love. it only poeple say i love you for keep conversation go long . thatis i saw it . and i tell you a gain '' i am not inlove with him'' but i just want to keep him for talk only when i have ahard time. that is. but for now no more. i am ok with that old go the new come.
'' i am not inlove with him' ------------------------------
There is a Lao man looking for love on this site. Have you read it?. I think his name is Ai Souk. I read it on this web site today. He has two teenager children, and living in Seatle,USA
What kind of a person would you like to meet. Maybe you should tell people you name and how old you are. It might interest some of the Bao Lao on this site. I think a lot of them here are imature gangster. My advice, stay away from those thugs.
10 or 15 years from now, I can see myself living a little house in Luangprabang with a view of MeKong River. 6 months in Laos and 6 months in the U.S.
Thats my dream two.... April to September in France, October to March in Laos.
But that's not so easy! How to find 2 good "half time" (6 months/years) jobs: one in Laos, one in France (or enough money to mork only 6 months/year???? wow)
And Who can hope have enough money to buy 2 houses? in Laos, the price is low for us, but i don't know in USA now, but in France, even a couple with good job cannot buy a correct house now, even with debts for 20 or 25 years... house prices became crazy in 10 years (+160%, but salaries remain about the same).... so, buying 2 houses... this is a far dream, even for me who have a good situation.
Thats my dream two.... April to September in France, October to March in Laos.
But that's not so easy! How to find 2 good "half time" (6 months/years) jobs: one in Laos, one in France (or enough money to mork only 6 months/year???? wow)
And Who can hope have enough money to buy 2 houses? in Laos, the price is low for us, but i don't know in USA now, but in France, even a couple with good job cannot buy a correct house now, even with debts for 20 or 25 years... house prices became crazy in 10 years (+160%, but salaries remain about the same).... so, buying 2 houses... this is a far dream, even for me who have a good situation.
I know Paris-Vientaine, it is just something I've been fantasied about for few years. I know it is impossible to have properties on both countries. Lately, I'm really sick and tired of living in the U.S.. Well, I hope this dream of mine do come true.
I have a house in Laos. I built it for about 60 thounsand USD last year. The outside is stucco, and the floor are tiles. My house is located in Champasack. Right by the river crossing. In the morning i see alot of young white girls walking and riding bicycle on the street, some are sitting at the cafe shop eating breakfast.
I would have hit that, but i'm married. My wife is pretty hot anyway. I had my filled with white girls in the US. The sex with hot Laos girls is 10 time better. They act so innocent in bed, but they love it. And dont get me start with Lao girl, long black hair, and slender body. I'm getting hot, thinking about it. I love it. Love it. My house is about 2000 square ft.
I also have a House in the USA. But its smaller. Its about 1400 square ft. And it cost me $320,000.00 USD. I think my house in Laos is ten time nicer. What a waste of money. I think in the next few years, i'll sell this house and move to Laos permanently. I just cant wait! so exited!.
I'm glad that my parents brought me to the United State, because of the freedom that American enjoy. But for the same reason, i'm going back to Laos. Wierd?.
If my Laotian wife is the last women i made love to, before i die. That would be find with me. Its worth the wait. I waited for a year, to make sweet love to her.
Never been with Lao girl before. Always like them, but too shy. Because i know alot of Lao girls in the United State prefer white guys or black guys. Sometime you feel that you dont measure up. But, i heard from alot of my white ex-girl friend, they said Lao man can measured up to or even better than any white or black men. SOLUTE!!
Oyy nor after reading a lot of these posts I'm very jealous. Mr. Sexy Bao LaoLao still single and has no one......haha
Do what you gotta do. Life is short, so follow your heart. I've been to Laos couple years ago. There were so many beautiful sao Lao that I've met and talked to. I feel like a pa aik.. Somehow I didn't click with anyone because I just got out from a relationship. Just wasn't able to move on yet. Thinking about it now I want to go back. I'm a different man now.
Oyy nor after reading a lot of these posts I'm very jealous. Mr. Sexy Bao LaoLao still single and has no one......haha
Do what you gotta do. Life is short, so follow your heart. I've been to Laos couple years ago. There were so many beautiful sao Lao that I've met and talked to. I feel like a pa aik.. Somehow I didn't click with anyone because I just got out from a relationship. Just wasn't able to move on yet. Thinking about it now I want to go back. I'm a different man now. -------------------
Hey man, take your time. If the time is not right, than wait. It does not matter if its Lao girl or American girl. To be in a commited relationship start with you, and how you feel about yourself. You are doing the right thing, not to start a relationship when you're not ready. Because you dont want to hurt the other person..and that would be selfish.
...haha 
Somehow I didn't click with anyone because I just got out from a relationship. Just wasn't able to move on yet. Thinking about it now I want to go back. I'm a different man now.
