Asian pride you say? There is nothing but shame. From my own experience, I see that asian women are not independant, they look for someone to leech onto to make their lives prosperous. Whoever can give them that better life that they desire, that's who get's the cookie. You can say it's almost like animals, survival of the fittest. The female looks for the best suiter who can take care of her and her offsprings. Love has nothing to do with it. When you look at it this way, the people who find a mate with this mindset are just as primitive as animals. As humans, we should have a higher consciousness to go beyond animal instincts and take advantage of being human, having the ability to reason and love. I see most marriages or unities in asia are based on $$$ and convenience. I have rarely seen a couple that was in "love". They might say it and act it but they cannot fool me. Again, this is from my own perspective and experience.